University of New England

For some, "coming out" is the process of being honest and positive about their sexual orientation or with their gender identity. For others, it means personally accepting and publicly revealing those characteristics to others. Regardless of which definition applies, coming out involves a very personal decision that should only be made by the GLBTQ person him/herself. Thus, as an ally or friend, you should give permission and support which encourages sharing, but NEVER reveal for the GLBTQ person (unless she or he has asked you to do so).

Many GLBTQ persons that have come out will tell you how incredibly freeing the process was for them. However, remember that it is also a very stressful process. If you are considering coming out, or want to learn more about it, there are many helpful resources available, locally, and via the net.

GLBTQ Services Advisor, Travis Erickson, extension 4267

Counseling Center
UC: Decary Hall 109, extension 2549
WCC: Proctor Hall 320, extension 4233.

		Coming Out to Your Parents
		HRC's Coming Out Project